What's Really Important

Being Patient

What does patience mean? patience means able to accept or tolerate delays, problems, or suffering without becoming annoyed or anxious. What happens when you are patient? What is life teaching you? What are you teaching yourself? How could becoming more patient change your life?


Gaining patience is gaining trust within yourself. You have to slow down. Rushed results of life could be even worse. Being patient will calm your agitation. Moving quickly all the time will only irritate you when those around you are not move as quickly as you. Be patient. Understand that not everyone is the same. No one will move how you would like them to or at your pace. Be patient with yourself and those around you. People need people. I would not want to feel rushed or feel like I'm irritating someone if I not moving fast enough for them... would you?



I myself have been practicing patience. I use to want things done quick and would get angry if someone was not moving as quick as I know they could. I use to want to quickly fall in love. Quickly want something to cook. Quickly wanted someone to drive... QUICK QUICK QUICK!!!!! I can honestly tell you that the quick way was not the best way. Sometimes my food didn't come out right.. The majority of the guys I was conversing with was not a matched after trying to force it to quickly. I decided to just take some steps back to examine why I may not be getting the results that's I so desperately wanted.




I took time to figure out what I was doing wrong, what I was missing, and what I need to do to get to where I desire to be. I did a lot of self reflecting. I had patience with myself and gave myself the time I needed to find the issue and construct the solution. God seen my efforts. He sent me results. I am now in love with myself and the love of my life. I am working on launching my business and putting the pieces all together for that. Patience ties into trust. You have to have trust in yourself and the universe that with being patient

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