What's Really Important

When is the right time to walk away?


We all fall into the regular routine of "everyday life". Ask yourself "does my life fulfill me?" "when was the last time I did something that makes me happy?" We all go through this. We don't want to complicate things. We don't want to change things. Change could be needed desperately but we choose to continue to deal with whatever life offers at that time. Change must occur but it starts with you!


When something or someone in your life is no longer supplying you with the happiness that you need....Its times to remove them. We should not allow anyone to disturb our happiness. Platonic friendships and romantic relationships are the same to me. It's your choice on who you surround your self with. Choose wisely, because ONLY YOU will deal with the after effects and emotions. If you ever doubt your choice just think, is this person putting me before themselves? If you feel the answer is "NO", then you know that you have a serious decision to make as far as that persons role in your life.


It won't be easy after making such huge adjustment, but it will be worth it. Choosing you will be the best thing that you could ever do. People around you will learn to adjust. Your confidence will shine bright. Your voice will get a little louder. Your skin will get a little tougher. You will become stronger. This will take time, but the results are worth the painful process that you will endure getting their. There will be tears. There will be doubt. There will be days that you don't want to continue. When these thought cross your mind... simply remember why you started. Your kids and depending on you. your mental health is depending on you. You got this!

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I first want to apologize for not blogging in months! I left my full-time job in July 2022 and in which I was using their computer system to blog regularly. I left because my job brought me absolutely

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